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Lazarus coping test online

Find out which strategies you use to cope with difficulties and stress, and how easily you get out of problem situations. You see the result right after the test and receive a copy by email.

50 statements · ~10 minutes

Read each statement and rate how often you behave this way when you face difficulties. There are no right or wrong answers — answer the way it really is.

What the Lazarus test measures

The Lazarus coping test (Ways of Coping Questionnaire) identifies coping mechanisms — the ways people deal with difficulties in different areas of life. It was developed by Richard Lazarus and Susan Folkman in 1988 and is considered the first standard instrument for measuring coping.

The test contains 50 statements about how you behave in a difficult situation. You rate each one: “never”, “rarely”, “sometimes” or “often”. Points are summed across eight scales, and for each one you see how strongly it is expressed, plus its strengths and risks.

Eight coping strategies

  1. Confrontation

    An active, sometimes aggressive fight with the problem.

    Standing up to the situation or responding aggressively. The person sees the problem as hostile and immediately starts fighting it hard, defending their ideals and ignoring the practical side of life — and as a result often ends up in awkward or even comic situations.

    + Strengths

    The ability to actively confront difficulties and stress.

    − Risks

    If the threat is not serious, you can only complicate the situation or harm yourself. Aggression is hard to control, which makes it difficult to plan your actions.

  2. Distancing

    Lowering the significance of the problem and emotional involvement.

    Distancing helps you cope with negative feelings by reducing how significant the problem is and how emotionally involved you are. Simply put, it is solving the problem “at a distance” — appropriate when your opponent or competitor is furious and it is better not to engage.

    + Strengths

    Lowers the weight of hard-to-solve situations and prevents intense emotional reactions and the urge to have everything “here and now”.

    − Risks

    Devaluing your own feelings; underestimating the problem and your ability to overcome it.

  3. Self-control

    Holding back emotions, a rational approach.

    The drive to suppress emotions: not showing them, holding back any negative feelings, not quarrelling with anyone and not setting yourself against others.

    + Strengths

    Helps avoid impulsive emotional actions; a rational approach prevails in difficult situations.

    − Risks

    When the situation calls for showing anger and emotion to deal with circumstances (or an opponent), this strategy does not deliver.

  4. Seeking social support

    Relying on others: advice, sympathy, help.

    Solving problems through external (social) resources — informational, emotional and practical support. It is oriented towards other people and the expectation of attention, advice and sympathy. The main need is emotional support: to be heard, to get an emotional response, to share your feelings with someone.

    + Strengths

    Lets you draw on external resources to resolve a difficult situation.

    − Risks

    Risk of a dependent position or excessive expectations of others. Using it too often may make others see you as a weak person.

  5. Accepting responsibility

    The superhero strategy.

    The drive to accept and recognise your mistakes, correct them and learn a lesson for the future. Strong-willed people who usually find a way out of any situation tend to choose it.

    + Strengths

    Understanding your own role in the difficulty.

    − Risks

    Unjustified self-criticism; taking on too much responsibility.

  6. Escape-avoidance

    “I’ll deal with it tomorrow.”

    A clear example is people who put everything off until tomorrow. Typical traits: denying and completely ignoring the problem, avoiding responsibility, passivity, impatience, outbursts of irritation, excessive fantasising, overeating, alcohol and other substances.

    + Strengths

    Quickly reduces emotional tension under stress.

    − Risks

    The problem stays unsolved, difficulties pile up, and the relief is short-lived.

  7. Planful problem-solving

    Step-by-step analysis and a plan of action.

    When stress awakens the creative, intellectual side of you that starts to deal with any difficulty or danger on your way methodically.

    + Strengths

    Strategic, step-by-step planning of a way out of the situation.

    − Risks

    Getting stuck on one action or thought; endless planning that never reaches results — a road to burnout; a lack of spontaneity.

  8. Positive reappraisal

    The problem as a stimulus for growth.

    Behaviour that helps overcome negative feelings by reframing the problem positively — as a stimulus for personal growth. A philosophical view of the situation and a wider context of working on yourself.

    + Strengths

    A fresh, new look at the difficult situation.

    − Risks

    Slowness where immediate action is needed.

How to read the result

There are no “good” or “bad” strategies: each one fits its own situation. What matters is which ones dominate for you and how flexibly you can switch between them. That is exactly what is worth exploring in a coaching session.

This test is for self-reflection and is not a psychological or medical diagnosis. If you find it hard to cope on your own, please reach out to a specialist for support.